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What do you do when church language about service and sacrifice gets tangled up with burnout?

I care about showing up for people. I also know how easily women, disabled people, and lower-income folks get praised for overextending themselves while calling it faithfulness.

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Dana Whitaker

I care about showing up for people. I also know how easily women, disabled people, and lower-income folks get praised for overextending themselves while calling it faithfulness.

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Leah Patel

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I am trying to treat limits as part of discipleship instead of evidence that I care less. If a community only works when certain people run themselves into the ground, something is off.

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Carmen Soto

Active this afternoon

The class piece matters more than people admit. Some church advice assumes everyone has time, money, and flexibility they simply do not have.

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Carmen Soto

Active this afternoon

I do not think certainty is the measure of faithfulness. Sometimes staying honest is the holier thing.

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