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I grew up with a very certain version of Christianity. How do you stay rooted when you no longer believe all the same things?

I still want faith to shape my life, but not in ways that flatten grief, questions, or the actual lives of my children. I am looking for rootedness without pretending certainty has returned.

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Marisol Vega

I still want faith to shape my life, but not in ways that flatten grief, questions, or the actual lives of my children. I am looking for rootedness without pretending certainty has returned.

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What practices help when your faith is quieter, slower, and less absolute than it used to be?

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David Kim

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Candles, simple prayer, and a few honest people have mattered more to me than trying to recover a former version of certainty. I can be rooted without being rigid.

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Naomi Ellis

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I appreciate this thread. It helps to hear other people talk about faith without acting like certainty is the same thing as maturity.

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Naomi Ellis

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A quieter faith can still be real. It just sounds different than it used to.

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