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I want community, but I get nervous that I will say the wrong thing

There are a lot of conversations here that I respect, but sometimes I worry I will show up awkwardly or ask something that reveals how new I am. I am trying not to make perfection my entry requirement.

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Jordan Lee

There are a lot of conversations here that I respect, but sometimes I worry I will show up awkwardly or ask something that reveals how new I am. I am trying not to make perfection my entry requirement.

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How have other people eased into belonging without waiting until they felt fully confident?

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Naomi Ellis

Last reply this morning

I am learning to start with one conversation, one meal, one ordinary interaction. Belonging usually grows through repetition, not one flawless first impression.

Following up from the thread about being new and unsure you can still call yourself...

Theo Nguyen

Last reply this morning

That makes sense to me. I have learned that showing up imperfectly is usually better than waiting until I feel completely confident.

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Theo Nguyen

Last reply this morning

Glad you found your way here. You do not need to tell the whole story on day one for your presence to matter.

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