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How do you decide when to speak up in public and when to conserve your energy?

There are moments when silence feels complicit and others when it just feels strategic to stay quiet. I am trying to discern the difference without baptizing avoidance or living in a constant low-grade argument.

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Caleb Turner

There are moments when silence feels complicit and others when it just feels strategic to stay quiet. I am trying to discern the difference without baptizing avoidance or living in a constant low-grade argument.

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What helps you tell the difference between faithful restraint and fear?

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Priya Raman

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I usually ask whether my silence is protecting peace, protecting ego, or protecting comfort. The answer is not always obvious, but the question helps me get more honest about why I am holding back.

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Jonah Mills

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I have been learning that not every silence is fear, but not every peace is healthy either.

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Jonah Mills

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The best next steps are usually the ones someone can actually follow through on this week.

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