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Maybe this is badly worded but I am posting before I lose my nerve

Sorry if this is too long / too messy. I left a local meeting feeling embarrassed because I got quiet at exactly the moment I wanted to say something useful, and now I keep replaying it.

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Megan R.

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Sorry if this is too long / too messy. I left a local meeting feeling embarrassed because I got quiet at exactly the moment I wanted to say something useful, and now I keep replaying it.

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Do other people ever freeze in justice conversations and then feel fake later for not saying what they meant?

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Caleb Turner

Last reply 40 minutes ago

I know courage is not the same as always speaking first, but I still have a hard time telling the difference between hesitation and cowardice.

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Joanna Cruz

Last reply 40 minutes ago

This one landed for me because sometimes the delay is not avoidance. Sometimes it is my nervous system catching up.

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Joanna Cruz

Last reply 40 minutes ago

The best next steps are usually the ones someone can actually follow through on this week.

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