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I'm tired of explaining racism to people at church. How do others handle that without going numb?

Some conversations are honest and worth having. Others feel like I am being asked to donate my energy so someone else can feel thoughtful for an hour.

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Malik Johnson

Some conversations are honest and worth having. Others feel like I am being asked to donate my energy so someone else can feel thoughtful for an hour.

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Lauren Pierce

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The pace matters. People need room to tell the truth without immediately being managed.

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Vanessa Cruz

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Solidarity gets clearer when it moves toward changed habits, budgets, and follow-through.

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David Kim

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What helps me is when the room stays concrete and does not ask harmed people to make everyone else comfortable.

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