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Elena Torres
People keep offering hopeful phrases and I know they mean well, but most of it lands badly right now. I am mainly looking for people who understand how strange and lonely hospital time can be.
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My mom is in the hospital and I keep bouncing between numb and furious
People keep offering hopeful phrases and I know they mean well, but most of it lands badly right now. I am mainly looking for people who understand how strange and lonely hospital time can be.
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Naomi Ellis
Quiet presence counts. Sometimes being witnessed without being fixed is the most helpful thing.
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Rebecca Long
You are not a burden for needing support in a hard season.
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Rebecca Long
Thank you for saying this out loud. You do not have to make the pain smaller to be cared for here.
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